When Madi was born more than one person asked when I was going to have her ears pierced. I said that I had no plans to do that. I figured that when she got old enough to ask me, I would take her to have it done. We would make a day of it. Go eat breakfast at Zeig's. Do a little shopping at the mall. Then we would pick just the right pair of beautiful earrings to have her ears pierced with. In that sweet daydream, Madi was about 10 or 11.
Today I was perusing some of my favorite blogs when Madi woke up from her nap. She came to the office and sat on my lap. She and Jackson like to look at all of the pictures on the computer. I got to Gigi's blog and she saw someone she knew.
She said, "That's Shelby."
I said, "Yep."
She said, "What's that on her ears?"
I said, "It's earrings."
She said, "Where did she get those?"
I said, "The mall."
She said, "Can I go to the mall and get some of those?"
Oh, my gosh. This happened so much sooner than it was supposed to. Madi will be 3 in June. She is mature for her age but she is no where near 10 or 11. This is messing my daydream up. What am I supposed to do now? I feel the urge to do a poll. Does anyone remember how the mullet poll turned out? Well, it wasn't very good for me in the end. I think I may do a poll and just say up front that I may or may not go by the winning votes in the poll.
So, vote for what you think I should do, but know that this ain't a democracy, it's a dictatorship. If I don't want to do what you want me to, I won't. So there.
But I would love to hear your opinions. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Oh, the Humanity
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We didn't let the princess pierce her ears until she was eight. We figured if the Lord thought she was old enough to make her own decisions, (and take care of her own ears), then we wouldn't argue!
I got mine done when I was 5 and you know this girl asked long before then. The funny thing is Rachael got them done the same day and she is a little more than 2 years younger so she was not quite 3.
They have incredible earring stickers these days that honestly stay on for days - would those suffice until she's 10 or 11? I think I was 8, didn't take care of them and ended up having to get them re - pierced at 12. Does she know that it hurts and does she really want to start paying the price for beauty... because that price seems to be goin' up in my world!!! Good luck - you have 2 girls. Ha ha ha.
miss 16 was 5 when she got her ears pierced, and that was only because she had a friend do it. i figured there were worse things she could have done, so we let her. she ran screaming from the pharmacy after they did ONE ear. we managed to drag her back for the 2nd a week later. if it wasn't for wanting to copy her friend, she might STILL not have them pierced. miss 18 got hers done at 7, miss 11 got hers done last year (i think) as a gift from miss 18, and miss 10 is too scared.
u do what suits YOU!!! just remember, their ears grow and the hole may end up being very low and look weird when they're older (that happened to miss 18).
My mama let us 4 girls get our's done when we turned 12. Like getting your ears pierced and going to Young Women went together. You do what you will! Dr. Cooper told Christon if she was going to do it, do it before they turn 6 months old and they will never know. I've never seen either girl touch their ears or play with their earrings.
Eek. I'm going to disagree with you all. I don't like pierced ears on small children. Why choose to pierce holes in your daughter's ears? She's perfect as she is.
If Ellie asks this question, my intention is to let nag me like crazy and wait to see her buy - and regularly wear - clip/screw on earrings. Once she starts bothering to do all those things, she can then have them pierced.
Kids are always romping about in crazy new ways and I'd not like to see an earring rip her ear in a silly accident. Better to wait till she's older.
Another thing... you never told her about your day dreams for letting her tell you when she was ready to have her ears pierced so you can just say "No" and be done with it. I was told "because I'm the mommy, that's why"
My daughter was 3 mos. old when we had hers done, so I don't know if I'm the best person to ask...:)
I'm with Dr. Cooper, get it done before 6 months, or wait until much later. Since you've missed the 6 month cut-off, then go back to your original thoughts. Like the Queen said, we tied it to a certain birthday, and I think by doing that, she really didn't bother us about it ... she started getting excited a couple of months before. I would have rather waited until she turned 12 like my sisters, but she has been really good to take care of them.
It's your choice at this point.
Pick your age for her to get them piereced ... then stick to it ... It will give her something to look forward to.
Both of my girls were done before they were six months old! I say GO FOR IT! But it is totally up to you, My friend had 2 of her little girls ears pierced at 3 & 5 & she said it was not that bad they only cried for a minute, so Your the mom, what does mr. Josh say?????
I don't like earrings on small children. I'm also allergic to them, or something, and can't wear them (yes, even the real gold ones)(I can't wear my wedding rings either! And if I wear a necklace for more than a day - like overnight, say, I end up with itchy red bumps on my neck)... I'm probably biased against letting a 2 year old get earrings.
No, I'm definitely biased. My vote would be for no.
And I agree with Sass E-mum, too... She might get one caught on something when she's playing and... Ouch! Right? That's not good.
That being said, if you decide to get her ears pierced, I won't judge or anything. I'll support you, whatever, k?
I had to wait till 13...thanks Shaw. I plan to wait with Olivia too at least till 8 myabe older. I really don't like earings on little ones either.
Okay - normally I am a "lurker" but I do have an opinion - beware - nothing I say is quick and to the point. There are five girls in our family and we all had to be a teenager before we could pierce our ears. We all looked forward to it and felt this huge rite of passage to be able to get them pierced. However, shortly thereafter I went through a phase that was not so short. I cut my hair in a "wedge" - for those of you who don't remember back to the 80's on this unusual haircut - it was above my ear on one side and down to my shoulder on the other. It was diagonal in the back. I thought I was too cool - only 3 of us in all of Panama City with that haircut!! How does this relate, you ask? Well, to wear this haircut to it's full potential - my earrings had to match my hair. Yep, a little tiny stud earring on one side and a dangling heavier one on the long side. Guess what I have - one stretched hole and one not - all earrings are a little lopsided. Wait as long as you can on the earring thing - give her something to look forward to. Just on a closing note, I didn't get my belly button done until I was in my late 20's!! Yikes, I sound like a crazy girl - nothing like the conservative southern stay at home mom that I am today!! I know, God blessed me with 2 girls to test me for the rest of my days!! :-)
You're the mamma, you don't want her to grow up too fast. Let her have fun with stickers, follow your little "dream" and plan on having a fun little date that both of you can look forward to.
Oooooo no, no, no! Sorry Amanda, I think she's too young to know what it means to have her ears pierced and too perfect to mutilate! Let her use stick ons and clips until she's at least 30!!!!
Can I vote more than once?
(I was 13 when I had mine done, my dad disapproved vehemently, it was excrutiating and one went septic - yuk!)
I pierced Zsa's ears when she was a baby!!
http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h91/KysstheRayne/trin.jpg
I got Erica's ears pierced when she was 3 months old. The right time to do it is when you think it is the right time.
Christy
I'm trying not to be jealous that you have 17 comments, but it isn't working.
I think that 8 years old is a good idea. But, my husband doesn't even want Gracie to have baby dolls until she can ask for them so....who knows what the future holds.
Eight sounds reasonable to me!
Who knew there were so many opinions on ear piercing! Do what you want, Amanda. And if anyone asks, you can always retort, "Because I'm the boss of you," which is true.
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